Conversation with mechanic this morning:
Mechanic: Are you a law student?
Me: Uhh, no. I'm a lawyer. What makes you ask?
Mechanic: Oh, the paper in your car. Well, not so much the paper, but the AMOUNT of paper in your car.
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I crossed paths with an old aquaintance from law school yesterday. We maybe had one conversation in law school, but he remembered my name. I was so impressed. Way to apply the whole - How to Win Friends and Influence People - principle of remembering people's names. Went to a party tonight and ran into a few other lawyers who practice with him. They say he is just amazing that way; always remembers peoples' names. I appreciate that quality. Makes me want to be more like that. Thanks for inspiring me David, I can't spell your last name...
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Experience as I was leaving work with a foot and a half of files in my arms because my bag broke from over use (or abuse, whichever you like better):
Sariah (name changed to respect employment contract): You really have a lot of files in your arms. Are you sure you don't want help, because you really look like you need help...?
Me: Oh, no. I'm fine, but thanks. [as we pass security guard]
Security Guard: Hey, do you need help carrying those files?
Me: No, really, I'm fine, but thank you.
Security Guard: You really need help carrying those files.
Me: Maybe, but really, I'm sure I'll make it to my car.

A few seconds later...
Two african-american dudes with dread locks and pants hanging low: Hey, do you need help carrying those files?
Me: No, but thanks so much for the offer.
Dudes - with sincere look of concern: You really do need help with those files. Are you sure you don't want us to help you?
Me: Oh, thank you so much for being willing to help, but I really will be fine. [Touched by their genuine concern. Big smile of sincere appreciation for their kindness]
Dude: You know, you have a really pretty smile.
Me: Thanks so much!
Day made.
I may just smile at a few more people...
and remember a few more names...
and try to cut back on the paper in my car.
That last one may be shooting a little too high...




1 comment:
Hey lawyer!!! It's nice you live in a place with so many nice people... maybe someone should buy you a new bag to abuse for your birthday!! Love this post... miss your face!!
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